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When do I officially own my home?

We are under contract in a house and will close in 60ish days. We are moving across country and I want to start sending my mail to the new house but the current owners are still there are told us that we can't. I'm not sure what they will do with it if we do but we have no where else to send it as we are sort of couch surfing for the next few months. Can we force them to allow us to send our mail there? What are our rights since we are under contract?

Asked by Zephyr B | Boise, ID| 03-17-2026| 112 views|Tips & Advice|Updated 1 month ago

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Barrett Henry

RE/MAX Collective · Tampa, FL

(6 reviews)
You don't own the home until closing. Being under contract means you have an agreement to purchase, not ownership. The current owners still legally own the property and have every right to occupy it and control access until the deed transfers to you at closing. You cannot send mail there, you cannot access the property without permission, and you cannot force the current owners to accommodate your needs during the contract period. They are within their rights to refuse. On the mail issue, set up a PO Box or use general delivery at your local post office for the interim period. You can also use a trusted friend or family member's address temporarily. Once you close and the home is officially yours, update your address with USPS and start forwarding mail to the new property. The contract gives you the right to purchase the home on the agreed terms. It doesn't give you any property rights until closing is complete, the deed is recorded, and the keys are in your hand.
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03-27-2026 (1 month ago)··
Keith Jean Pierre

REMAX First Realty · East Brunswick, NJ

(151 reviews)
Post closing.
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04-13-2026 (2 weeks ago)··
Loodmy Jacques

Keller Williams Reserve · West Palm Beach, FL

(25 reviews)
You don’t own it yet. You officially own the home at closing, when you sign and the deed is recorded. Until that moment, it’s still the seller’s property. So no, you can’t force them to accept your mail. From their side, they’re still living there and don’t have to manage someone else’s deliveries. Best move is to use a temporary option: Have your mail held at the post office Forward it to a trusted friend or family member Or use a mailbox service for a couple months Once you close, then switch everything over. I know it’s inconvenient, but until closing, you don’t have rights to the property yet.
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04-29-2026 (11 hours ago)··
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Phong Tran

Real Broker · Portland, OR

(4 reviews)
No, you can’t force the sellers to accept your mail before closing because they still legally own and occupy the home, so you don’t have possession rights yet. They’re not obligated to hold or manage anything delivered there, and it could be returned or lost. Your best bet is to use a temporary solution like a PO Box or mail forwarding through the United States Postal Service, or have it sent to a trusted friend or family member until you officially take ownership. Every state operates a bit differently though, so check with your agent on what your specific options are.
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03-17-2026 (1 month ago)··
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Becky Groe

Coldwell Banker Realty, Colorado Springs · Colorado Springs, CO

(82 reviews)
This is a very common question, especially during longer closing periods. The important distinction to understand is that being under contract does not mean you own the home yet. You officially become the owner only after: • Closing documents are signed • Funds are transferred • The deed is recorded with the county Until that happens, the seller is still the legal owner and has the right to control access and use of the property, including mail delivery. Because of that, they are generally not required to accept or manage mail for future buyers. Why sellers usually say no: It’s mostly about liability and logistics. They don’t want responsibility for someone else’s packages or important documents, and it can also create confusion about occupancy before closing. What most buyers do instead: A few practical options that usually work better are: • Set up a temporary PO Box • Use a UPS or private mailbox service • Use a trusted family member’s address temporarily • Request a USPS mail hold until your move date • Change your address right after closing is confirmed Key takeaway: Your ownership and your right to use the property address typically begin at closing, not when the contract is signed. You're definitely thinking ahead, which is great. Planning these logistics early makes the transition much smoother once you officially take possession.
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03-19-2026 (1 month ago)··
Michael MillerRising Star18 Answers
Michael Miller

HomeFound Group · Boise, ID

(42 reviews)
Until you fund and record on the home it still belongs to the seller. They have the right to determine when and how you may have access except as outlined in your contract. I know it's a pain but you could get a P.O. Box for the interim or call and ask the Post Office to hold your mail. It's honestly best that your mail doesn't go to the current owners. They could lose it, open it or just plain throw it away.
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03-24-2026 (1 month ago)··
Timothy RiordanRising Star11 Answers
Timothy Riordan

Keller Williams Realty WNY · Williamsville, NY

(36 reviews)
The short answer is no, until the deed is recorded and the keys are in your hand, you have no legal right to use that address or the mailbox. If you don't want rent a P.O. Box, you could use what's called general delivery. USPS allows you to send mail to a specific post office under your name via General Delivery for up to 30 days. Hope that helps!
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03-17-2026 (1 month ago)··
Katie K PortengaNovice9 Answers
Katie K Portenga

Portenga Properties at Coldwell Banker Global Luxury · Denver, CO

(71 reviews)
Perhaps you can set up a temporary PO Box and have the mail directed there?
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03-17-2026 (1 month ago)··
Kristine LivadasNovice7 Answers
Kristine Livadas

Compass · Locust Valley, NY

(30 reviews)
Until you officially close, you do not own the home. Some sellers won't mind you adding your new address but you can't force them, so for the most part, it is not recommended. I would ask and if you receive a NO, then perhaps considering calling the local post office and renting a PO box for the short term. You can pick everything up once you get to town.
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03-17-2026 (1 month ago)··
Jillian HoganNovice4 Answers
Jillian Hogan

Corcoran McEnearney · Alexandria, VA

(21 reviews)
We are located in Virginia and this answer could change based on jurisdiction. A purchaser owns the home as soon as all parties have signed the documents at closing. So closing date would be the earliest date that you have rights to the property. Some jurisdictions can mandate that the ownership doesn't transfer until the new Deed is recorded at the Courthouse. That said, until closing is completed, you do not have any ownership of the home.
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03-17-2026 (1 month ago)··
KARINA FURLINNovice4 Answers
KARINA FURLIN

Keller Williams Realty · Palm Harbor, FL

(21 reviews)
The moment you sign the closing documents and funding is in escrow to be diburse to seller
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03-17-2026 (1 month ago)··
Alexandru BorovicNovice3 Answers
Alexandru Borovic

Compass · Coconut Grove, FL

(7 reviews)
very common during this stage. You don’t officially own the home until closing is completed and the deed is recorded. Being under contract gives you rights to purchase, but not possession or control yet. Regarding mail - you can’t force the current owners to accept or manage your mail. Until you close, it’s still legally their property. Best move here: • Set up USPS forwarding temporarily • Use a trusted address (family/friend) for now • Update everything once you officially close
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03-17-2026 (1 month ago)··
Tory AtkinsNovice2 Answers
Tory Atkins

Herron Real Estate · Orange Park, FL

(9 reviews)
I would recommend opening a PO box nearby for the time being then you can forward mail after closing. You don't "own" the home until closing once all money is received and it is funded.
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03-17-2026 (1 month ago)··
Brenda HindmarshNovice2 Answers
Brenda Hindmarsh

Regents Real Estate Group · Cortez, CO

(17 reviews)
Your best best is to get a PO Box until you take Close and take possession of the property.
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03-18-2026 (1 month ago)··
Megan LearyNovice1 Answer
Megan Leary

The Agency CDA · Coeur d'Alene, ID

(32 reviews)
In Idaho you own your home as soon as it records at the County. The Escrow company will typically call you and/or your Realtor to say "congratulations, it's all done". Have your mail forwarded for the date that you are recording (not signing paperwork).
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03-17-2026 (1 month ago)··
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