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Can seller back out after they accept?

I made an offer on a house and the seller accepted it. Then a week later they said they want to stay another month and want to pay rent. We said no and now they aren't accepting our offer. Can they do that?

Asked by Anonymous | Fort Lee, NJ| 12-01-2022| 1,317 views|Buying|Updated 3 years ago

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Briahna SavageNovice3 Answers
Briahna Savage

Keller Williams NY Realty · White Plains, NY

(23 reviews)
The rules in every state are different but its best to seek legal advise on this question. Especially is contracts and earnest money was provided to the sellers side of the transaction. -Briahna Svagae Licensed Realtor NY & PA [email protected]
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12-01-2022 (3 years ago)··
Amanda Courtney

REP Realty Group · Fort Myers, FL

(13 reviews)
A seller can only back out if a specific Contingency isn't met (e.g., they can’t find a new home) or if the buyer breaches the contract terms. Once a contract is "Fully Executed" and past the attorney review period, a seller backing out without cause faces "Specific Performance" lawsuits, where a judge can legally force the sale. If they try to walk for a better offer, they are often liable for the buyer’s inspection and appraisal costs, plus the agent's full commission.
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02-26-2026 (2 months ago)··
Aaron Sims

Berkshire Hathaway Home Services · Philadelphia, PA

(3 reviews)
📌 Can a Seller Back Out After Accepting Your Offer? Short answer: No — not if you have a fully signed contract. Once both parties sign, the seller is legally bound to the terms. They can’t just change their mind because you didn’t agree to their new request. But the details matter. 🏡 Step 1: Do You Have a Fully Executed Contract? This is the key. If you have: - A signed Agreement of Sale - All initials and signatures - All terms agreed to in writing 👉 You have a binding contract. If the seller accepted verbally or through text but never signed the contract, then it’s not binding. 🧭 Step 2: Can the Seller Add New Terms After Signing? No. Once the contract is signed: - They cannot change the closing date - They cannot demand a rent‑back - They cannot alter terms without your written agreement They can ask, but they cannot force. You said you declined the rent‑back. That does not void the contract. ⚠️ Step 3: So Why Are They Acting Like They Can Walk Away? Sellers sometimes: - Get cold feet - Realize they need more time - Didn’t plan their move - Thought you’d agree to anything - Don’t understand contract law But none of that gives them the right to cancel. 🧾 Step 4: What Happens If They Refuse to Perform? If you have a signed contract and they refuse to move forward, your options include: ✔️ Enforce the contract (specific performance) You can legally require them to sell. ✔️ Demand release + return of your deposit If you don’t want the fight. ✔️ Negotiate a compromise If you’re open to a rent‑back with protections. Most sellers cave once they realize they’re in breach. 🧠 Step 5: What a Seasoned Agent Would Do Right Now Your agent should: - Confirm you have a fully executed contract - Send a firm, professional notice reminding the seller of their obligations - Document everything in writing - Hold the seller to the agreed‑upon terms - Loop in the title company if needed This is not a “maybe” situation — it’s contract law. 🎯 Bottom Line If you have a signed contract, the seller cannot back out just because you refused their rent‑back request. They are legally obligated to sell under the original terms. If they try to walk, they’re in breach — not you.
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Grant NultyRising Star14 Answers
Grant Nulty

Berkshire Hathaway HomeServices Fox & Roach Realtors · Margate City, NJ

(29 reviews)
Hi Charlene, in New Jersey this actually comes down to attorney review. Even if the seller accepted your offer and signed the contract, the deal usually isn’t fully binding yet. In NJ there’s a 3-business-day attorney review period after both sides sign the contract. During that time, either the buyer’s or seller’s attorney can cancel the contract or request changes for basically any reason. So if you said no to letting them stay another month and their attorney disapproved the contract or cancelled it during attorney review, they can legally walk away from the deal. Once the deal is out of attorney review, that’s when it becomes binding and much harder for either side to back out. Not saying it’s great practice, but legally it does happen sometimes during that stage.
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03-10-2026 (1 month ago)··
Jamie MorengRising Star11 Answers
Jamie Moreng

Move with Moreng @ eXp Realty LLC · Hoboken, NJ

(115 reviews)
Charlene, Great question. As many have mentioned, this is largely influenced by timeline. If both parties had attorney representation a week in atty review seems like a long time from my experience. If you were still in review, they the sellers can absolutely back out of this obligation. Once the executed rider is in place, the inspection & appraisal contingency are satisfied, then & only then would there be a more likely scenario where both buyer and seller have obligations to fulfill on the completion of the sale.
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05-20-2023 (2 years ago)··
Santiago ValdezRising Star10 Answers
Santiago Valdez

Compass - Chicago - River North (Kinzie) · Chicago, IL

(73 reviews)
Hi Charlene, if you have an attorney review period in your contract, that period is for both the buyer and also the seller; any of them can suggest changes to the contract which if not satisfied can terminate and get their earnest money back if some is involved. That is also the importance of finishing attorney review as quickly as possible for both buyer and seller.
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01-03-2023 (3 years ago)··
Edwin LoraNovice4 Answers
Edwin Lora

United Real Estate North Jersey · Fair Lawn, NJ

(19 reviews)
This will depend on what step of the transaction this is happening, during Attorney review this can be possible, but after you are under contract, your attorney would have to advise you on that. Edwin Lora Realtor® in NJ
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12-19-2022 (3 years ago)··
Karrie-Ann VersaceNovice3 Answers
Karrie-Ann Versace

Coldwell Banker · SPARTA, NJ

(21 reviews)
Hi Charlene, If you are still in Attorney Review the seller can still back out. It is important to find an attorney that can get you out of Attorney Review completed quickly. Mine is done in 2-4 days tops.
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02-06-2023 (3 years ago)··
Andrea AlummootilNovice2 Answers
Andrea Alummootil

Keller Williams Park Views · Rutherford, NJ

(54 reviews)
Charlene, The seller has the right to change his mind anytime during the transaction. If it is not out of attorney review, he is not liable for any damages or costs incurred by the buyer. This seems like the seller is not sure what they want.
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01-31-2023 (3 years ago)··
Rashi TalwarNovice1 Answer
Rashi Talwar

BHHs Fox & Roach 675 Martinsville Rd, Basking Ridge, NJ 07920 · Basking Ridge, NJ

(10 reviews)
Hi Charlene, In New Jersey, till the time you are in attorney review both seller as well as buyer can back out without any obligations. However, if you are out of attorney review then there should be some substantial reason to back out. Thanks, Rashi
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03-11-2026 (1 month ago)··
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